Frequently Asked Questions About Hiring A Party Stripper
General Questions
I’m new to this, what happens?
Our professional dancers arrive dressed in a sexy outfit (with options available to suit your theme) and kick off the fun by surprising the guest of honor with an exciting striptease performance. Once the spotlight show wraps up, they extend the entertainment to all guests, offering personalized dances and interactive elements like lap dances, playful party games, fun toasts, whipped cream, and more. Every event is customized to your group's vibe, ensuring a unique, high-energy experience that's enjoyable and memorable for everyone involved! If you have specific preferences, just let us know – we're here to make your party unforgettable.
How far in advance should we book our dancer?
While we can often accommodate last-minute requests, booking ahead is the best way to secure your preferred time slot and dancer. Our top performers are in high demand and tend to fill up quickly, especially on busy Friday and Saturday nights. If you're planning an event in a remote area of North or South Carolina, advance notice helps ensure everything runs smoothly. Even if it's short notice, give us a call – we'll do our best to make it happen, though options may be more limited. Let's get your party locked in early for the ultimate experience!
I’ve been to a party in which the dancer they had ordered was not the one we got. Will this happen to me?
We understand how frustrating that can be—it's disappointing when expectations aren't met. Unfortunately, some services in the industry use misleading tactics like stock photos of unavailable performers, hoping you'll accept whoever arrives on the spot.
At A Bare Affair Strippers, we're different. Serving North and South Carolina since 1992 with thousands of happy customers, we pride ourselves on transparency and reliability. Our website features real photos of our actual dancers—what you see is exactly what you get! Many dancers prefer not to appear online for privacy reasons, and in those cases, we can send authentic photos upon request. We never engage in bait-and-switch practices.
In the rare event of an emergency where your selected entertainer can't make it, we'll notify you immediately about any changes. You have the option to cancel without penalty if the substitution doesn't work for you (though no discounts or fee reductions apply). Your satisfaction is our top priority—let's ensure your event is everything you envisioned!
How long have you been in business?
A Bare Affair has been serving Charlotte and North Carolina since 1992. When we went online in 1996, we were the first stripper company on the internet. A Bare Affair is the original online stripper service.
What is the minimum guest requirement?
Your party will need to have at least 5 people. If your party has less than 5 guests, the dancer will not perform. We do not do one on ones.
How old must everyone be to attend the show?
Everyone there needs to be 18 years old. If there is any dispute the dancer may require an id.
Are costumes available?
Yes, costume can make things more fun! Female strippers may have a hot cop, cheerleader, dominatrix, cowgirl or school girl. Some of the male stripper costumes include the cop, cowboy, fireman, construction worker and biker. Not every dancer will have every outfit. If you are looking for something in particular just call us at 704-947-0601 for help.
Are these the only guys and girls you have available?
We have additional male and female strippers that are not pictured on the site. Just contact me at 704-947-0601 and I will give you details and photos of other options.
Can we have the strippers perform on a party bus?
Absolutely, people do this all the time! Planning to have strippers on a party bus will be different than sending them to your home or hotel. Please read our party bus information page which has a checklist of things you need to know.
Booking Your Event
Is a credit card deposit required?
A deposit is required. This will apply to the total fee, and it's not refundable. If you cancel, the deposit can be applied for another party; good for one year. We also accept many other digital payment methods.
Can I charge the entire cost of the show on my credit card?
No. You can charge the deposit on your card, but the balance will have to be paid to the dancer in cash when she arrives
What information will you need to book the dancer?
We will need your name and phone number; also an additional contact for the night of the party. In addition we need the address of the location and the approximate time you need the stripper to arrive.
What is your refund policy?
Once the entertainer begins their show, there are no refunds and no exceptions. If you have some issue with the dancer that you feel a price adjustment is needed you must to call our office while the entertainer is at the party.
Things To Know The Night Of Your Party
Will the dancer bring their own music?
Yes they will. Many have routines to certain songs. If you have any special requests the dancer should be able to accommodate you if you have the music.
Do I need to reimburse the entertainers for parking expenses?
Yes if you are staying at a hotel that has paid parking you will need to compensate the dancer for those fees.
Will we need to tip the strippers?
Tipping is not mandatory, however for the best experience we recommend you tip your dancers. This will not only extend the amount of time the dancers will stay at your party but also add to the enjoyment of your guests. The dancers will have fun tipping games that everyone will be able to participate. The more you tip, the more fun you will have.
Can we photograph the dancers?
Each performer has a different policy so always ask your dancer if they allow photos. Many of our female strippers do not want photos of them topless or nude being circulated. Some of them will not mind posing in their costume with your guests but ask first. If the dancer has a no photo policy please respect that.